If you offer erotic massages, erotic bodywork and spiritual-erotic sessions, you have certainly had the experience at times that you reach certain limits in your work. Either a client demands too much of you, or a session can go into areas that you did not actually want or intend. The bordering areas of Eros and sex naturally always build up a field of tension, and it is precisely in this field of tension that growth usually happens.

However, there are also more frequent situations where you are stuck and need the advice of experienced colleagues. 

It is with this premise that we will start a new regular supervision group called “Gay Love Spirit erotic Bodywork Supervision” in May 2021.  How does such a supervision group work?

Basically we try to recognise, assess and solve our own problematic situations through the view of others. We work with the so-called Balint method. It is based on the realisation that in problematic situations we often recognise the parts of others well, but are partially blind to our own.  This is called the “Johari window”.  Observers who are not involved themselves can look at situations impartially and thus give valuable and critical feedback. Together with the leader of the supervision group, we find other ways of looking at things and work out new approaches to solutions.  This method also activates the creativity of the whole group. The group should not be too large (approx. 6 to 10 members), the attitude of the participants should be characterised by a high mutual respect and a low motivation to attract attention. Everything that is said is strictly confidential and of course remains in the supervision room.

A common exchange is very important, especially for men who do not have too much experience with sessions yet. If you are interested, please contact us at info@gaylovespirit.org. In 2021 the offer is free of charge for all interested people for the time being. As soon as the Gay Love Spirit Massage Practitioner Training starts, the interested participants of the training will also join.